Crystals To Improve Your Love Life
Romantic love is such an important part of our culture and society that we can often feel empty or less than when we don’t have enough of it. Throw in some ridiculous cultural changes to the dating world and suddenly it all feels a whole lot harder.
Now we have commitment phobia running rampant, and this intense desire for connection hiding beneath the surface, which often paves the way to intense or fast paced physical intimacy, lacking in the spiritual and romantic connection that we so desire with others.
The hardest part of all this is finding someone who also wants what you want, rather than a quick one-night stand or a friend with benefits.
This blog post is for those of you who are searching for someone permanent, or hoping to attract your ‘person’ in life. I’ll be covering some crystals I recommend you can utilise to bring about this energetic change in YOU and your SPACE to make room for and attract this person into your life. I will also detail some ritual ideas you can use alongside these crystals.
EMERALD
I always recommend Emerald for those who feel they have been unlucky in love. This is because Emerald is known as the cursed crystal, and is often seen as slightly unlucky which means it really vibes with those who feel the same!
Being green, this crystal connects with your heart chakra helping to heal and energize this part of your physical and spiritual body.
Emerald is known as the stone for successful love and it promotes loyalty in the relationship. It is also great for those who need some peace and calm in their love life after a particularly toxic or tumultuous relationship.
I recommend wearing Emerald on a long necklace that sits over the heart chakra or placing it under both your own pillow, and the empty pillow next to you as a symbol that you’re holding space for someone special.
Try Emerald if your Sun, Moon or Rising signs are in Taurus, Capricorn or Virgo.
AMAZONITE
Amazonite is a great stone for those who have undergone emotional trauma whether in a love relationship or even with a familial relationship as these traumas often bleed into our love lives. If you see a pattern emerge in the partners you choose, this is a great time to do some shadow work on yourself and your underlying beliefs about love, often shaped during our childhood years.
This stone will help to soothe and comfort you through the process of working on your traumas whilst also working to manifest the love of the Universe to you.
Amazonite works fantastically when paired with Rose Quartz, so it would be helpful to use them in a crystal grid together either in the shape of a heart OR the sacred geometrical shape of a vesica piscis
Try Amazonite if your Sun, Moon or Rising signs are in Aquarius, Pisces or Cancer.
RUBY
Ruby has a little bit of a different vibe to the other stones mentioned here. Whilst Ruby will aid in opening up your heart chakra, it’s actually really great at bringing passion into your life! If your love life has felt a bit lacklustre or boring and you’re after more excitement & passion then this is the stone for you! It will also help to create and open up feelings of divine love in your life and stimulates the kundalini energy which is great if you’re interested in explore tantric sex practices.
Ruby is great worn in jewellery or placed on a love altar.
Try Ruby if your Sun, Moon or Rising signs are in Aries or Leo.
RHODOCHROSITE
Rhodochrosite is a calming stone that encourages increased self-worth, stimulates love and passion by lifting up the heart chakra and soothes the soul in a tender and loving way. This is a stone that directs love first at the self, to examine old wounds in a way that will help you to release limiting beliefs, old patterns of trauma and forgive yourself. This then paves the way to welcome in new love and soulmate relationships, at a higher vibration which is more loving, joyful and peaceful than relationships from previous lower vibratory states.
Place two in the bedroom, one on either side of the bed to attract a soulmate. Meditate with the stone over your heart chakra for 20 minutes, 3 times a week to aid in releasing old patterns and making way for new love.
Try Rhodochrosite if your Sun, Moon or Rising signs are in Leo & Scorpio
ROSE QUARTZ
Rose Quartz is another crystal renowned for its love qualities. It is another stone that promotes self-love, first and foremost to place you in a higher vibratory state. With the Law of Attraction, like attracts like which means the more self-love and value you place on yourself, the more love and value a potential lover will place on you too.
This stone will open up the love receptors in your body, encouraging kindness, compassion and forgiveness firstly to yourself and then radiating out to others.
Rose Quartz can clear out any anger we have at others that may be blocking us to accepting what is.
Raw Rose Quartz has a stronger energy for breaking through those emotional blocks, with a smooth tumbled stone providing a more consistent and gentle energy if you’re feeling particularly vulnerable.
Place a piece of Rose Quartz in your bathtub during your full moon bath or keep it by your bathroom mirror to aid in self-love.
Try Rose Quartz if your Sun, Moon or Rising signs are in Taurus & Gemini
GREEN AVENTURINE
Also known as the love stone, this beautiful stone is strong and feels bolder than a lot of the more gentler love stones mentioned above. This stone will aid in stimulating power and confidence as you jump back on the horse and re-enter the dating game. It is also known as a stone of good luck and protection so this can be especially helpful when internet dating or going on a first date.
Green Aventurine will stimulate compassionate behaviour and also help turn negative energy into positive energy.
Green Aventurine works beautifully alongside Rose Quartz, consider using the two together with some rose or sage essential oil or carrying some in your pocket when you go on a date!
Try Green Aventurine if your Sun, Moon or Rising signs are in Libra, Capricorn, Taurus or Virgo
MOLDAVITE
This stone is not usually recommended for love as it is often used for promoting psychic awareness, astral travel and soul journeying however I’ve included it here because it is traditionally given to brides to promote marital harmony. It’s assistance with intuition can only help when one is searching for a new relationship and the beautiful green colour of Moldavite means it is associated with the heart chakra too.
The companion oil for this stone is Juniper, you can create a ritual by writing your intention on paper and petitioning your guides assistance in your love life. With a pink spell candle, dress the candle in the juniper oil and rose petals and place atop the paper, gridding the candle with some small Moldavite stones, light the candle on a Friday (the day of love as per Astrology of the week) and let the candle burn all the way down to the paper.
Consider placing some Moldavite beneath the bed if you are in a relationship, to encourage harmony within the relationship.
Try Moldavite if your Sun, Moon or Rising signs are in Cancer or Sagittarius
Of course, crystals are not going to be a magic spell to cure all your love issues but they will help work alongside you as you do the work required. They can aid in removing blocks or healing wounds that have become obstacles in your search for love. Crystals can help in making you more receptive to love and encouraging the right vibration to attract a higher vibe relationship.
If you’re wanting to gain clarity on your love life consider booking a love reading with me.
I recommend the Curly Questions as a great service for diving into your love life.
I wish you all the best in your search for love!
Brightest Blessings,
Hana the Suburban Witch
Meet Hana
Hana O’Neill, the Suburban Witch is a professional Tarot & Astrology reader, Intuitive Coach and the host of the Witch Talks podcast.
